Sexual Orientation Test
How Our Sexual Orientation Test Works
To begin, simply click the “Start Quiz” button. You'll be asked 45 multiple-choice questions designed to explore your patterns of attraction, behavior, and emotional response. Our sexual orientation test evaluates five orientations: straight, gay, bisexual, asexual, and demisexual. Instead of giving you a binary label like “you are gay” or “you are straight,” your results will show a percentage match for each orientation. You'll also see how many of your answers aligned with typical responses from people in each category. This approach offers a more nuanced and informative view of your orientation, without forcing you into a fixed label.
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Questions Overview
These are all the questions you will be asked in our sexual orientation test.
1) Do you ever catch yourself checking people out in public?
Yes, people of the opposite gender.
Yes, people of the same gender.
Yes, men and women.
Rarely or never.
2) Have you ever felt understood by a coming-out story (video or article)?
Not really, I don’t relate to them.
Yes, some felt like they were telling my story.
They are moving, but I don't feel anything noticeable.
3) Do you feel excited, nervous, or jealous around openly gay people?
Not really
Maybe a little.
Yes, I feel a bit jealous of their confidence.
4) Do you often question your sexuality?
No, I’ve always felt straight.
Yes, I often question if I'm into the same gender.
Yes, I wonder why I don’t feel sexual attraction to anyone.
Sometimes, I wonder if I might like the same gender.
5) Have you ever pretended to like the opposite gender just to fit in?
Rarely or never.
Yes, that has happened before.
6) Does your FYP or social media feed frequently show you any of these?
Thirst traps or hot pics of the opposite gender.
Thirst traps or hot pics of the same gender.
Thirst traps or hot pics of both men and women.
Not really, I usually skip that stuff.
7) Do you have more than 3 gay friends that are of your gender?
No
Yes
Yes
8) How do you feel when someone of the opposite gender (who you find attractive) flirts with you?
I enjoy it.
Flattered, but not interested.
Annoyed and not interested.
9) How do you feel when someone attractive of the same gender (who you find attractive) flirts with you?
I enjoy it.
Flattered, but not interested.
Annoyed and not interested.
10) Have you ever felt physically attracted to someone of your gender?
No, never
Yes, definitely.
Maybe, not sure
I can acknowledge that they’re attractive, but I don’t feel any attraction.
11) Have you ever been attracted to the personality of someone of your gender?
No, never
Yes, definitely.
Maybe, not sure
12) Has anyone ever assumed you're gay?
No, never
Yes, that has happened once or twice
Yes, all the time
Yes, that has happened once or twice
Yes, all the time
13) Have you read more than 3 articles about sexual identity?
Yes, they were mainly about whether I am into the opposite gender.
Yes, they were mainly about whether I am into both genders.
Yes, they were mainly about whether I am asexual.
Yes, they were mainly about whether I am demisexual.
No
14) What gender do you picture your future partner being?
The opposite gender
The same gender
Could be a man or women.
No idea
15) What do you feel when two gay people of your gender hook up in movies?
Slightly uncomfortable
Love it
It turns me on
I don't feel anything
I don't mind it
16) What do you feel when a straight couple hooks up in movies?
Slightly uncomfortable
Love it
It turns me on
I don't feel anything
I don't mind it
17) Have you ever felt butterflies for someone?
Yes, for someone of the opposite gender
Yes, for someone of the same gender
Yes, for men and women
Never
18) What are your wet dreams about?
People of the opposite gender.
People of the same gender.
Both men and women.
I have never had a wet dream in my life
19) If your partner wanted a threesome, who would you pick to join?
Someone from the opposite gender as me
Someone from the same gender as me
I’m open to either men or women
Not interested in a threesome
20) Who have your deepest emotional bonds been with?
With someone from the opposite gender
With someone from the same gender
With both men and women
I have never had a deep emotional bond with someone.
21) Do you follow LGBTQ+ pop culture or creators?
No
Yes
22) Do you currently have a real-life crush?
Yes, they are from the opposite gender
Yes, they are from the same gender
Yes, on both men and women
No
23) Why are you taking this sexual orientation test?
I’m questioning whether I’m gay.
I’m questioning whether I’m bisexual.
I’m questioning whether I’m asexual.
I’m questioning whether I’m demisexual.
Just for fun.
24) When a gay friend of your gender talks about their sex life, how do you feel?
Slightly uncomfortable
Love it. I want to hear more
I don't care about other people's sex life at all.
I don't have gay friends
Neutral
25) When a person of the opposite gender talks about their sex life, how do you feel?
I don't have gay friends
Love it. I want to hear more
Neutral
I don't care about other people's sex life at all.
Slightly uncomfortable
26) If you were to masturbate without porn, what would you imagine?
A fantasy with someone from the opposite gender
A fantasy with someone from the same gender
A fantasy with either a man or woman
This makes me uncomfortable
27) Which of the following porn would you most likely watch?
Straight couples
Gay couples of my gender
Straight couples and gay couples of my gender
I don't find porn arousing at all
I don't watch porn.
28) Imagine kissing someone of your gender. What do you feel?
Not aroused
Aroused
29) Imagine kissing someone of the opposite gender. What do you feel?
Aroused
Not aroused
30) Imagine giving oral sex to someone of your gender. What do you feel?
Not aroused
Aroused
31) Imagine giving oral sex to someone of the opposite gender. What do you feel?
Aroused
Not aroused
32) Imagine having sex with someone of your gender. What do you feel?
Not aroused
Aroused
33) Imagine having sex with someone of the opposite gender. What do you feel?
Aroused
Not aroused
34) Who do you find more physically attractive?
The opposite gender
Someone from my gender
Men and women
I have never been physically attracted to someone before.
35) Have you ever been in love with someone (who you were or were not in a relationship with)?
Yes, with someone from the opposite gender
Yes, with someone from the same gender as me
Yes, with both men and women
I have never been in love before.
36) Have you ever kissed someone and enjoyed it?
Yes, someone from the opposite gender
Yes, someone from the same gender
Yes, both men and women
I have never kissed someone before.
37) Have you ever had sex with someone before and enjoyed it?
Yes, with someone from the opposite gender
Yes, with someone from the same gender
Yes, with both men and women
I have never had sex before.
38) Have you ever given or received oral sex and enjoyed it?
Yes, with the opposite gender
Yes, with the same gender
Yes, with both men and women
I have never had oral sex before.
39) Do you enjoy romance but rarely feel sexual desire?
Yes, I almost never feel sexual desire.
No, I feel sexual desire once I know a person very well.
No, I do feel sexual desire for other people.
40) Do you feel like an outsider when friends talk about sex or lust?
Yes, I cannot relate to lust and sexual desire.
No, I do feel sexual desire for other people.
41) Have you mostly had sex to please someone else, not out of your own desire?
Yes, I can relate to that.
Sex before having a deep connection has felt that way, but after we had a deep connection I loved it!
No, I enjoy sex!
I have never had sex
42) How would you feel in a relationship where sex wasn't possible?
I would be fine with that.
I could not do that.
43) Do you find people physically hot but feel no sexual desire without a deep emotional bond?
Yes, this has happened to me.
No, I have been sexually attracted to people before without knowing them deeply.
44) Have all your sexual attractions come after deep emotional bonds?
Yes, they have.
No, I have been sexually attracted to people before without knowing them deeply.
45) Could you have sex on a first, second or third date if the date(s) went great, and you are very attracted to them?
No, I need to have a very deep emotional connection before having sex.
Yes, I could have sex within the first three dates.
No, I would probably need more like 5 to 6 dates.
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